Dating Tips-How to Impress a Woman on Your First Date
2. Be yourself, but put you best foot forward. If you’re the kind of guy who likes to wear jeans and a tee-shirt, it’s ok to be casual, but don’t be a slob. Women can pick up a lot of details quickly. Throw on some clean “Dockers”, an open collared shirt, and make sure your shoes look good and your socks sort of match the color of your pants. If you wear suits for work, wear one on a date.
3. Don’t be cheap. If you can’t afford to take her out to dinner, take her to a park or a free concert and then for a cup of coffee. Most women will offer to go dutch, and some will even foot the bill. However, if you want to impress her, and especially if she’s older, show her a good time and don’t make her pay.
Now that we’ve covered the obvious, let’s look at the good stuff. There are two important things you must remember at all times:
1. A woman wants to be cherished. She wants to feel special and appreciated. When a woman feels like she’s valued, she’ll be your greatest ally. A woman shares every part of herself with a man once she feels like she’s with her hero. So how do achieve that status….focus your attention on her. Really listen to what she’s saying. Ask her about herself. Look in her eyes when speaking. Never interrupt her. If your eyes get distracted by the leggy brunette in the short skirt, try to focus on the woman your with. If your date catches you looking around at other women, it hurts her feelings. She may shut down emotionally and decide right then and there not to date you again. She’ll also be put off if you keep glancing at the television during your first date. If you get caught looking, just apologize and focus on your date again. Look for little ways you can show her you heard what she said and show her you care. This doesn’t mean you need to spend a lot of money on her. If she says she likes swimming, offer to take her to your favorite lake, beach, or pool. If she tells you her favorite song, sing a line or two as you walk her to the door. ALWAYS remember her name. Focus on the woman your with.
2. Women have intuition. You must be honest with your date. A women’s brains works differently than a mans. There is actually different wiring in the brain so that a woman can connect thoughts with emotions quicker than a man. The bottom line, women can smell B.S. quicker than most guys. Women are more turned on by emotional honesty and vulnerability (not neediness) than they are by guys in mansions with sports-car collections. If you’re beat up from your last divorce and just looking for something casual and physical, be honest about it. If you’d like to have a steady girlfriend, let her know. Many women do not speak as direct as men. If you don’t understand what she’s trying to say, ask her to clarify. Some women, especially women who have not dated need a man to show her how to communicate directly. It may be challenging at first, but it helps both of you understand each other better. So, be honest with her.
Finally, if you’d like to see her again, let her know, but don’t grovel. A needy man is a big turn off to women. Once you learn how to put your best foot forward, show a woman you care for her and learn to respect her need for honesty and emotional connection, you’ll be well on your way to a fulfilling relationship or a more successful time dating.
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