Quick Tips on How to Be More Romantic

May 23rd, 2006 by Dale Kentucky | No Comments »

In a relationship, most often than not, you can blame it on the guys to be inactive in the romance department. Thoughtfulness is the main ingredient to keep a relationship alive. There is really no exact formula on how to be a romantic person and being romantic would naturally come out if you really care and love the person you are with.

Rule number one is to add your own style and personal charm in romancing. If you are backlogged when it comes to romance, here are some simple ideas that you can use:

Personalize It

Giving a woman a jewelry box is an ordinary thing. But if she sees that the jewelry box you bought her is her favorite color, her kind of style and with her name on it, then she might give the jewelry box a second look and cherish it forever. The point is, no matter how ordinary a thing is, if you give it a real thought before buying, then the efforts of choosing a gift that you think would please her would count as being romantic.

Surprises

Do something out of the blue. If your usual night out would mean a dinner date at McDonald’s then a fine dining restaurant of her choice would absolutely surprise her. If you are not used to giving small token of appreciation like flowers or chocolates, then do so once in a while.

Quality Time

If you’re out of the budget and can’t afford to buy gifts or treat your partner to some fancy restaurants, then you must be thrilled that there is a great alternative to all these materials things. Yes, your quality time would be enough. Spending time lazing on the couch in front of some good TV would do the trick. Your sweet gestures and kind words like “I miss the smell of your hair” can even lead to some serious romancing.

The Magic of Touch

It is always a good sight when you see couples walk hand in hand. The sensuality of one’s touch can do wonders. Of course, be sincere and touch only a woman’s “safe” parts like her hair, chin and shoulders.

Being romantic should be a natural thing for someone who’s in love. If you are having a hard time thinking of romantic ways to please your partner just think of something that can make her smile. If you can do that, you would consequently find a way to make her heart jump.

Ron Zvagelsky has a degree in Business Administration from the University of Southern California. He graduated Magna Cum Laude in May 2006. He is currently the Chief Executive Officer of PlanJam - where you can

Practice How to Seduce Women on Dates With Women You Find Not to Be Your Type

May 22nd, 2006 by Dale Kentucky | No Comments »

Many times men pass up opportunities to go out on dates simply because a woman isn’t exactly your type. If you have a full schedule passing up on dates is okay, however, if the majority of your weeknights consists of watching TV and playing video games. Perhaps you should reconsider going out with plain Jane in accounting.

Practicing your seduction skills is always a good thing and making mistakes with women you aren’t really attracted to and learning from them is much easier to swallow than making these same mistakes with women who you are attracted to.

You will find that the best time to ask women that you aren’t extremely attracted to out is the day of, hopefully you have already been flirting with her for sometime as a testing board and when you find yourself with nothing to do on a Thursday night you can simply say you know what I think it would be fun if we hung out together are you doing anything special tonight.

During your date you are going to want to test out all those theories and techniques that you need to work on and escalation techniques. If your game is already tight then you would not be on this date anyway so it is okay to be honest with yourself and try those techniques that you don’t know work yet.

An important point to remember is you want to be honest about your intentions with this woman. If you do end up sleeping with her make sure you let her know that it isn’t anything serious and that it is best to simply remain just casual friends.

Believe it or not women do the same thing so most women will be happy that you chose to be honest with them and you are conveying that you have higher value as well. I don’t need to lie to have sex with you because I know that I can get it anytime I want you just happened to be who I was with for the night.

Also you need to realize that the bigger the network of your friends the more opportunities that you will have to attract women.

Imagine if plain Jane has a cousin coming into town who happens to be your type. The weekend comes along and since you and Jane are friendly she asks if you want to join her and her cousin for drinks.

Now I am not saying that plain Jane is going to have a cousin that you are attracted to.

However do you really think plain Jane is going to invite you to anything if you never even took the time to get to know her?

Teddy Shabba is a Dating Coach for Men and creator of