Relationship Advice - Why Things Change In The Relationship?

Firstly I must say that things don’t change but people change. Let me explain to you why I said so. In the beginning of a relationship where or when boy meets girl everything is exciting. A lot is focused on looks, how do I look or I got to make sure he or she likes what I am wearing and always looking attractive. Right! That normally goes on for about 3 months to 6 months and then it stops until as a couple you going out for dinner or some special occasion.

Now six months later things start to become boring and dead and the relationship don’t seem to be exciting any more. You ask, “Why is that happening?” The reason is like before in the beginning of the relationship you both made an effort to dress to impress each other. Why not 6 months down the line or even a year into the relationship you do the same as in the beginning?

Keep the excitement going and growing, keep each other excited about wanting to be around each other. But in all that excitement always keep the communication aspect of the relationship open or on going.

Ok back to keeping the excitement going. Bear this in mind that when a woman walks down the street looking sexy maybe with short a short skirt on or even looking sophisticated with some high hill shoes or flat ones, you find that a woman will catch a man looking or steering. Even women will look and make a comment in her mind or to her boyfriend or husband. You get the point! Well it is simple because we get attracted to these things because it is eye catching.

So why not take this same concept and apply it in your daily routine at home. Women when your man walks in from work or where ever he was and comes into the house, stop what you are doing (like watching soaps) and greet him with a great big hug and a nice passionate kiss and whisper in his ears “baby you know I miss you today, I was thinking about you all day I couldn’t get you out of my head and was getting really excited” then smile or chuckle and kiss him again. Its all about the art of seduction Do you see where I am going with this and what I am talking about?

Change your style of dressing on a weekly basis or daily if you can. It doesn’t have to be buying lingerie, just wear something sexy. A nice short skirt or some short pants or even go as far as wearing one of his vest or shirts. I leave you to imagine the possibilities. The reason to all this is to help keep the excitement up and he will not get tired of seeing or get use to seeing you in the same old clothes everyday.

That will keep his heart racing and he will be thinking of you and what might happen or will see you in when he comes home. But don’t start dressing to sexy and then taking that sexiness out of the house because you know what he will be saying. Once you start going out like this all he will be thinking of or make you look like you doing is looking for attention just like those women out there that do it. What you need to concentrate on is how to keep your boyfriend or husband attracted to you at all times. Keep up the excitement.

By Leo Bastien

Leo Bastien works as a relationship consultant to friends,colleagues and anyone that needs the advice. He has helped many save struggling relationship and put the excitement back in of people from various levels in society.
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